The overall thought would be to have a diversity of asset locations and asset types to deal with your situation now and into the future for heirs. Like an oxygen mask on an airplane, first take care of yourself and your retirement as I don't know of lenders who make retirement loans without collateral that consists of your own money. So first and foremost, consider IRA assets as for the Individual who will be retiring. If those needs are taken care of with allowances for high inflation in the future, having some assets for others in ETFs would be tax efficient and have the step up in basis as you note. Having a variety of assets with a variety of "tax stamps" where the government treats them for tax purposes, differently, is good as (I'm watching the news now) Congress can be unpredictable. Great question.
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DENNIS LEWIS
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